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Nov 01 2021

What Really Matters in Life

In a NY Times interview, Walt Bettinger, the Chief Executive of Charles Schwab talked about the lessons he learned in college:

“A business strategy course in my senior year stands out. I had maintained a 4.0 average all the way through, and I wanted to graduate with a perfect average. It came down to the final exam, and I had spent many hours studying and memorizing formulas to do calculations for the case studies.

The teacher handed out the final exam, and it was on one piece of paper, which really surprised me because I figured it would be longer than that. Once everyone had their paper, he said, “Go ahead and turn it over.” Both sides were blank.

And the professor said, “I’ve taught you everything I can teach you about business in the last 10 weeks, but the most important message, the most important question, is this: What’s the name of the lady who cleans this building?”

And that had a powerful impact. It was the only test I ever failed, and I got the B I deserved. Her name was Dottie, and I didn’t know Dottie. I’d seen her, but I’d never taken the time to ask her name. I’ve tried to know every Dottie I’ve worked with ever since.

It was just a great reminder of what really matters in life, and that you should never lose sight of people who do the real work.”

This story made me think of the book that I just finished reading.  In Todd Gongwer’s book “LEAD . . . for God’s Sake!”, a rich CEO and a successful championship basketball coach are heavily influenced by a high school janitor.  If you haven’t read Gongwer’s book, I highly suggest it.  Your perspective on life will change. You will be on your way to leading a life of significance.

Ralph Waldo Emerson has been attributed with saying “Every man that I meet is in some way my superior and in that way, I learn from him.”

Furthermore, the Bible says in Proverbs “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

Who are the Dottie’s in your life?

Secretaries.  Custodians.  Uber Drivers.  Cafeteria workers.  Civil servants.  Community volunteers.

Do you put people first?  Do you take care of those who take care of you?

Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “Every man that I meet is in some way my superior and in that way, I learn from him.”

The great baseball player Jackie Robinson said that a life isn’t significant except for its impact on other lives.

Do you value the people around you?  You can be the reason that somebody believes in the good of mankind today. You can be the reason that someone smiles today.

 
 
Jamy Bechler is the author of The Leadership Playbook, host of the Success is a Choice Podcast, professional speaker, and trains organizations on creating championship cultures. Bechler spent 20 years as a college basketball coach and administrator. He has worked with businesses and teams, including the NBA. Follow him on twitter at @CoachBechler. To connect with him via email or find out about his services, please contact speaking@CoachBechler.com.

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth · Tagged: Charles Schwab, Indiana Wesleyan University, Lead for God's Sake, Leadership, Priorities, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Todd Gongwer, Walt Bettinger

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