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Jul 25 2018

Episode 081: Former FBI Lead Negotiator Chris Voss

Chris Voss is the author of Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It, CEO of Black Swan Group Ltd., and a former lead negotiator for the FBI.

Prior to 2008, Chris was the lead international kidnapping negotiator for the Federal Bureau of Investigation, as well as the FBI’s hostage negotiation representative for the National Security Council’s Hostage Working Group. During his government career, he also represented the U.S. Government at two (2) international conferences sponsored by the G-8 as an expert in kidnapping. Prior to becoming the FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator, Christopher served as the lead Crisis Negotiator for the New York City Division of the FBI. Christopher was a member of the New York City Joint Terrorist Task Force for 14 years.  He was the case agent on such cases as TERRSTOP (the Blind Sheikh Case – Sheikh Omar Abdel-Rahman), the TWA Flight 800 catastrophe and negotiated the surrender of the first hostage taker to give up in the Chase Manhattan bank robbery hostage taking.

During Chris’s 24 year tenure in the Bureau, he was trained in the art of negotiation by not only the FBI but Scotland Yard and Harvard Law School. He is also a recipient of the Attorney General’s Award for Excellence in Law Enforcement and the FBI Agents Association Award for Distinguished and Exemplary Service.

Chris has taught business negotiation in the MBA program as an adjunct professor at University of Southern California’s Marshall School of Business and at Georgetown University’s McDonough School of Business.  He has taught business negotiation at Harvard University, guest lectured at The Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University, The IMD Business School in Lausanne, Switzerland and The Goethe School of Business in Frankfurt, Germany. Since 2009 Christopher has also worked with Insite Security as their Managing Director of the Kidnapping Resolution Practice.

In today’s episode, we discuss:

  • Is real life FBI negotiating like what we see in the movies
  • How we can use negotiating skills in our every day lives
  • Strategies for dealing with customer service representatives
  • How to be the smartest and most interesting person in the room

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Resources, Books, and Links Mentioned in the Podcast

Website: BlackSwanLtd.com/

Twitter: @VossNegotiation

Facebook: www.facebook.com/BlackSwanLTD

Click here for Black Swan Group’s and Chris’ YouTube page.

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Check out Chris’ book “Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It.”

Articles of interest …

  • “Ask a Hostage Negotiator: What’s the Best Way to Get a Raise?” (The Atlantic)
  • “5 Tactics to Win a Negotiation” (Time.com)
  • “3 Keys to Bargaining with Anyone” (Inc.com)

Past “Success is a Choice” podcast episodes of interest . . .

  • Brad Lea (CEO of Lightspeed VT & Sales Expert) – Episode 066
  • Larry Winget (The Pitbull of Personal Development) – Episode 054
  • Ed Decosta (John Maxwell Faculty Member & Sales Expert) – Episode 050
  • Lolly Daskal (Fortune 500 Business Coach)- Episode 044
  • Micheal Burt (Creator of the “Monster Producer” program) – Episode 022
  • Betsy Butterick (Communication Specialist) – Episode 013

“Never be mean to someone that can hurt you by doing nothing.”


Chris Voss in Action


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Thanks again for listening and remember that “Success is a choice. What choice will you make today?”

Jamy Bechler is the author of four books including The Captain and The Bus Trip, host of the Success is a Choice Podcast, professional speaker, and trains organizations on creating championship cultures. He previously spent 20 years as a college basketball coach and administrator.  The Leadership Playbook is Bechler’s online program that helps athletes become better teammates and more positive leaders while strengthening a team’s culture. As a certified John Maxwell leadership coach, Bechler has worked with businesses and teams, including the NBA. Follow him on Twitter at @CoachBechler. To connect with him via email or find out about his services, please contact speaking@CoachBechler.com. You can also subscribe to his insights on success and leadership by clicking here.

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