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Aug 05 2026

How ADs Can Interview for Real Culture-Building Coaches

SPECIAL GUEST POST FROM DAN CHRISTENSEN 

Every coaching candidate talks about culture.

They believe in accountability. They care about relationships. They want to recruit high-character student-athletes. They value hard work, trust, discipline, and family.

Those are good words. But in a coaching search, they are not enough.

One of the biggest mistakes an athletic director can make is allowing “culture” to remain vague. When culture becomes a personality impression, the process drifts toward questions like, “Did we like this person?” or “Do they seem like they would fit here?”

Those questions may feel natural, but they are not enough to guide a high-stakes hire.

The better question is this:

What evidence do we have that this coach can build the kind of culture our student-athletes need and our institution expects?

That shift matters. It moves the search from comfort to clarity.

Culture Is More Than Chemistry

There is nothing wrong with wanting a coach who connects well with people. Athletic directors should care about communication style, relational ability, and whether a candidate understands the institution.

But chemistry is not the same thing as culture-building.

A candidate can interview well and still struggle to create a healthy team environment. Another candidate may be less polished in the room but have a clear, proven way of building standards, developing leaders, and earning trust over time.

In coaching searches I have been part of, the strongest candidates are usually not the ones who simply say the right things about culture. They are the ones who can explain how culture is built on Tuesday afternoon, after a hard practice, during a losing streak, when a captain is frustrated, or when a talented player is not meeting expectations.

That is where culture becomes real.

Ask How Standards Are Built

Almost every coach believes in standards.

The key is learning how those standards are taught, reinforced, and lived.

Some coaches talk about standards mostly through punishment. Others talk about standards as a shared commitment that must be modeled, communicated, practiced, corrected, and owned by the team.

That difference is important.

Athletic directors should ask questions like:

“Tell me about a time your team’s standards were not where they needed to be. What did you do first, what resistance did you face, and what changed?”

This kind of question forces the candidate to move beyond slogans. Listen for whether they describe a thoughtful process or simply a reaction. Did they clarify expectations? Did they involve team leaders? Did they address issues directly? Did they distinguish between immaturity, defiance, confusion, and lack of structure?

Good culture-building coaches know that standards are not created by a speech. They are created through repetition, consistency, consequences, modeling, and trust.

Listen for How Trust Is Earned

Trust is one of the most important ingredients in a healthy program, but it is often misunderstood.

Some candidates assume trust means players like them. Others understand that trust is built through honesty, consistency, competence, and care.

An AD should want to know how a coach earns trust when things are difficult.

Ask:

“Tell me about a time you entered a program where trust was low. What did you do in the first 30 to 60 days?”

Strong answers will usually include listening, observation, clear communication, early consistency, and appropriate boundaries. The candidate will be able to describe what they learned before they acted. They will also understand that trust does not mean lowering standards.

Be cautious with candidates who talk as if trust is automatic because of their title, resume, or intensity. Student-athletes may respect a position at first, but long-term trust has to be earned.

Pay Attention to Athlete Voice

One of the clearest signs of a healthy culture is whether athletes can tell the truth appropriately.

Can they raise concerns?

Can they ask questions?

Can they bring bad news?

Can they disagree respectfully?

Can team leaders communicate what is really happening in the locker room?

This does not mean the program becomes athlete-run. It means the coach is secure enough to listen and strong enough to lead.

A helpful interview question is:

“Give me an example of a time an athlete challenged you, disagreed with your approach, or brought you difficult feedback. What did you do, and what happened afterward?”

This question often reveals a lot.

A culture-building coach can usually name a real example. They may not have enjoyed it in the moment, but they can explain how they listened, clarified, responded, and learned. They understand that athlete voice can strengthen accountability when handled well.

A weaker answer may frame disagreement as disloyalty. The candidate may become vague, dismissive, or overly defensive. That is worth noting.

Accountability Without Fear

Every strong program needs accountability.

But accountability and fear are not the same thing.

Some coaches create short-term compliance through intimidation. That may look organized for a while, but it often limits honesty, ownership, creativity, and long-term growth. Student-athletes may learn how to avoid mistakes rather than how to take responsibility.

The better culture-builders know how to hold people accountable without humiliating them. They correct directly, but they do not demean. They are demanding, but not reckless with their words. They know the difference between a hard conversation and a harmful environment.

Ask:

“Describe a time your team failed publicly, underperformed, or had a significant culture issue. How did you address accountability without creating fear or excuses?”

Listen carefully to the balance of the answer.

Does the candidate take responsibility for their role?

Do they talk about teaching, clarity, and follow-up?

Do they protect dignity while still addressing the issue?

Do they understand that accountability should produce growth, not just compliance?

That answer will tell you more than a generic statement about discipline.

Psychological Safety Is Not Softness

Some coaches hear terms like psychological safety and assume it means comfort, entitlement, or lack of standards.

That is not what strong athletic directors should be looking for.

A psychologically safe team is not one where anything goes. It is one where people can communicate truthfully, make mistakes, ask for help, and address conflict without fear of being shamed or ignored.

In a college athletics setting, that matters. Student-athletes are navigating pressure, identity, academics, performance, relationships, and mental health. The coach does not need to be a counselor, but the coach does help set the emotional climate of the program.

A coach who creates fear may eventually stop hearing the truth.

That is dangerous.

The AD needs a coach who can be demanding and trustworthy at the same time.

Move From Fit to Evidence

The word “fit” is not useless, but it can become lazy if we are not careful.

Instead of asking whether a candidate “fits,” define what you actually mean.

Do they align with the institution’s mission?

Can they lead today’s student-athletes?

Will they collaborate across campus?

Can they build standards without tearing people down?

Will they represent the department well?

Can they develop leaders inside the team?

Once those criteria are clear, ask every candidate for evidence.

Not philosophy alone.

Not charm.

Not buzzwords.

Evidence.

The best culture-building coaches can show you how they have built trust, taught standards, handled conflict, invited athlete voice, and corrected problems. They can tell stories with specifics. They can name what worked, what failed, and what they learned.

That is what athletic directors should be listening for.

Because when the search is over, culture will not be what the coach said in the interview.

It will be what the student-athletes experience every day.


 

Dan Christensen is the Director of Collegiate Consulting for Bechler Leadership. Founded by Jamy Bechler in 2018, Bechler Leadership helps schools, athletic departments, and organizations build stronger cultures and maximize their potential. In the last three years, they’ve worked on 60+ searches, specializing in meeting the needs of “smaller” colleges. Dan can be reached at dan@bechlerleadership.com.

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