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Jun 22 2024

Developing a Player-Led Team

The Hall of Fame basketball coach Tom Izzo likes to say, “A player-led team is always better than a coach-led team.” The best teams have athletes that step up and take a leadership role. The best teams have athletes that take ownership in the culture and are invested in the process. 

This doesn’t happen if the coach is a control freak, micro-manager, or the only voice in a program. The best teams have athletes who are leaders. The best teams have strong leadership. 

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: Coach K, Coaching, Culture, Educate, Empower, Encourage, Enhance, Equip, Example, Exemplify, Leadership, Player led team, role model, standards, Tom Izzo

Nov 22 2022

Episode 179: Former Duke Basketball Coach Talks Mental Health

Joanne P. McCallie (“Coach P”) is one of the most highly decorated coaches from her time as a college basketball coach. In her 28 years as a head coach at Maine, Michigan State, and Duke, she won more than 70% of her games, had three National Championship game appearances, and won National Coach of the Year honors in 2005. Coach P also was the only women’s coach to lead two different programs to 30-win seasons, as well as the only women’s coach to work alongside both Coach K and Tom Izzo. She battled mental health issues while coaching, which led her to write the great book, Secret Warrior. 

Click here to see more about Coach P.

In today’s episode, we discuss:
  • Working with Tom Izzo and Coach K
  • Becoming a Division I head coach at age 26
  • The reality of mental health issues
  • Using phrases like “mental toughness”
  • Balancing responsibility to team but also the individual
  • … and much more!!!

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth, Podcast Episodes, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: Basketball Coaches, Basketball Coaching, Brian Stanchak, Clark Kellogg, Coach K, Coach P, Coaching, Duke, Duke University, Joanne McCallie, Maine, Mental Health, Mental Issues, mental toughness, Michigan State, Tom Izzo, Women's Basketball

Apr 05 2022

Episode 182: Jonathan Milligan, Your Message Matters

Jonathan Milligan is the author of Your Message Matters: How to Rise Above the Noise and Get Paid for What You Know. He is also a blogger, speaker, and online business coach. He has spent the last decade guiding and directing creative professionals on how to pursue meaningful work. Since 2009, Jonathan has run his own portable lifestyle business online. Today he teaches others how to build a business with their passion, story, or message. He lives in Jacksonville, Florida, with his wife, Charity, and their two kids. He is also only the second guest to make an encore appearance on the Success is a Choice podcast as he appeared back on episode 033. 

Get a free copy of Your Message Matters at YourMessageMattersBook.com

In today’s episode, we discuss:
  • Finding your story to tell
  • Why your message matters
  • How can we turn our passion into profits
  • … and much more!!!

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth, Podcast Episodes, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: Basketball Coaches, Basketball Coaching, Brian Stanchak, Clark Kellogg, Coach K, Coach P, Coaching, Duke, Duke University, Joanne McCallie, Maine, Mental Health, Mental Issues, mental toughness, Michigan State, Tom Izzo, Women's Basketball

Jan 31 2022

Motivational Minute: The Past

“There are 3 things we can do with the past: LIVE in it, DWELL on it, or LEARN from it.” (Jamy Bechler)

We are one month into the new year and hope you are still excited about the prospects that 2022 brings.

Click here to listen to the 1-minute audio version of this article.
There is just something cool about flipping the calendar and feel as if we have a new starting point.

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Personal Growth · Tagged: Coach K, Dwell on the past, Fail Forward, Inspiration, John C. Maxwell, Learn from the past, LIve in the past, Motivation, Motivational Minute, Napoleon Dynamite, Rebound, The Past, Uncle Rico

Dec 11 2018

3 Things You Can Do with the Past

Everyone has a past.  Often times, the things that have happened to us shape our future.  We can do three things with our past.  We can LIVE in the past, we can DWELL on the past or we can LEARN from the past.  Whichever category you fall into may go a long way toward determining your future.

Just be careful not to end up like Uncle Rico from Napoleon Dynamite in the following video clip . . .

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Personal Growth · Tagged: Anger, Buddha, Coach K, Fail Forward, Forgive, Forgiveness, future, Growth, jason romano, John C. Maxwell, Leadership, Learning, Napoleon Dynamite, Past, Uncle Rico

Jan 21 2018

Change is inevitable; Growth is optional

The world is always changing.  We are always learning more and more.  Technology is ever-changing.  Athletes are getting bigger, faster, stronger.  John Maxwell says that change is inevitable but growth is optional.

My wife and I have lived in 8 places during our marriage.  We have seen different cultures, perspectives and belief systems.  Ironically, we have found that one thing has remained the same through the years…the world is in a constant state of change.

Your ability to adapt to situations can lead to a higher level of success.  As a coach, I was faced with hundreds of decisions each game.  Some of them I was prepared for but many of them I was not.  I had to be ready to change course if need be.  That is life.

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth · Tagged: Change, Coach K, Growth, John Maxwell, Maxwell Moment

Dec 15 2017

Episode 037: All-Star Leader Podcast Host Daniel Hare

Daniel Hare is the host of the All-Star Leader Podcast. He has interviewed such big-time guests as former U.S. Congressman J.C. Watts, College Football Playoff Committee Chair Kirby Hocutt, Orlando Magic Co-Founder Pat Williams, and Jon Gordon. Daniel currently holds the position of Director of Career Development and Employer Relations at Baylor Law School. Daniel is also a licensed attorney with a wills, estate planning and probate practice. He is formerly the athletic director at Western Oregon University. Daniel is involved in the Waco community through a wide variety of organizations and efforts. He is an active member and volunteer leader at Antioch Community Church, where he also mentors elementary school students through the STARS program.  Daniel is also a mentor through the LEAD program of the Greater Waco Chamber of Commerce.

In today’s episode, we discuss:

  • Memorable guests and moments that he has had on his show
  • Common traits from guests that have appeared on his show
  • Podcasts that a podcast host likes to listen to
  • Wisdom and discernment when faced with politicians we disagree with

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Podcast Episodes · Tagged: All-Star Leader Podcast, Andreas Jones, Athletic Consulting, Baylor University, Coach K, Daniel Hare, Dave Ramsey, EntreLeadership, gary vaynerchuk, gary vee, J.C. Watts, Jamy Bechler, Jon Gordon, Jon Rossman, Ken Coleman, Kirby Hocutt, Law School, Lawyer, Leadership, NCAA, Pat Williams, Political Gabfest, StartUp, Tim Selgo, Western Oregon University

Oct 04 2017

Episode 003: Performance Coach Alan Stein, Jr.

Alan Stein, Jr. is a world-class performance coach that has trained some of the top stars in the NBA. He is now turning his attention to working with top CEO’s as an executive business coach. His popular Pure Sweat Basketball podcast has had such guests as Coach K, Tom Izzo, Kevin Durant, Jay Bilas, Gary Vaynerchuk, and Mark Cuban.

In today’s episode, we discuss:

  • His transition from world-class performance coach to executive business coach
  • What “success is a choice” means to him
  • His time with Jesse Itzler at his summer camp getaway for adults
  • What he has learned working with and interviewing some of the top players and coaches
  • …and plenty more!


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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Podcast Episodes · Tagged: 29-0-29, Alan Stein, Business coach, Coach K, executive coach, gary vaynerchuk, gary vee, Guy Raz, Headspace, HostGator, How i built this, Jesse Itzler, mark cuban, Meditation, performance coach, Podcast, pure sweat, pure sweat basketball show, Self-Awareness, Success is a Choice, Tom Izzo

Mar 03 2016

The Winning Edge

(originally posted on March 1, 2016)

March is finally here.  If you are a basketball fan like I am, you are excited because it is MARCH MADNESS.  We’ll soon be filling out our brackets.  There will be 68 top-notch teams in the NCAA basketball tournament.  I heard an announcer on ESPN say that this year’s tournament might be the most even tournament in NCAA history.  Half of the field has a shot at winning the whole thing.

Talent alone will not set these teams apart.  There are so many teams that have fairly equal talent.  Just like our team that has started their quest for an 8th high school state championship.  We are talented but so are other teams.

What is going to take us from talented to good?  What is going to give us an advantage over other talented teams? What differentiates us from the competition?  Successful people do things differently.  Here are a couple of ways that we can gain a winning edge:

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Personal Growth, Sports · Tagged: Abe Lincoln, Coach K, March Madness, NCAA Tournament, Next Play, Prepare to Win, Talent, Thomas Edison, Winning Edge

Mar 31 2012

15 Best Books for Leaders

“I do not think much of a man who is not wiser today than he was yesterday.” (Abraham Lincoln)
As a basketball coach, I have a tremendous opportunity to lead and influence people every day.  Certainly leadership involves a great many things, however, I have found that constantly learning and re-learning methods, strategies, and insights gives me a better chance to lead in a positive manner.  Reading books is one of the key resources that I utilize in trying to sharpen my leadership skills.  Every once in awhile, I’ll even read a book again because it was so good.  Below are some of the books that I’d recommend highly for anyone seeking to be a better leader.

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth · Tagged: Abe Lincoln, Bill Belichick, Books, Coach K, Coaches, Colin Powell, Good Leader, Harvey Mackay, John Maxwell, Larry Winget, Leadership, Pat Summitt, Pat Williams, Resources, Self-Improvement, Stephen Covey

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