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Jun 22 2024

Developing a Player-Led Team

The Hall of Fame basketball coach Tom Izzo likes to say, “A player-led team is always better than a coach-led team.” The best teams have athletes that step up and take a leadership role. The best teams have athletes that take ownership in the culture and are invested in the process. 

This doesn’t happen if the coach is a control freak, micro-manager, or the only voice in a program. The best teams have athletes who are leaders. The best teams have strong leadership. 

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: Coach K, Coaching, Culture, Educate, Empower, Encourage, Enhance, Equip, Example, Exemplify, Leadership, Player led team, role model, standards, Tom Izzo

Jun 22 2024

4 Mistakes Coaches Make With Team Captains

As a head coach, you can’t be the entire program. You need assistants and you need captains that can help you lead the program towards success.

Great team captains make your job easier as a coach. Everyone knows this, but having strong team leadership is not as simple as a well-meaning wish and a snap of the fingers. Most coaches know what kind of captain and leadership they want, but oftentimes it doesn’t play out that way.

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: captains, Coaching, Developing Leaders, Expectations, Leadership, standards, Student Leaders, Team Captains, Team Leadership

Jun 20 2024

Choose to be better

“You either get bitter or you get better. It’s that simple. You either take what has been dealt to you and allow it to make you a better person, or you allow it to tear you down. The choice does not belong to fate, it belongs to you.” (Josh Shipp)

🔊 Click here to listen to a 2-minute audio version of this story.

At 27 years of age, I was the youngest women’s basketball head coach at the NCAA level. Four years later, I was allowed to take my talents elsewhere.

I got resigned.

How kind of them to let me voluntarily resign.

No matter how you spin it, I was fired.

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Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth, Sports · Tagged: basketball coach, Bitter or Better, Choices, Coaching, Ed Schilling, Fired, Growth, hired, Human Resources, i got fired club, LeTourneau University, young coach

Apr 22 2024

Getting Athletes to Buy Into Backup Roles

    There are no small parts — only small actors!

    This phrase has been uttered countless times when it comes to acting, but it also applies beautifully to your team. You could easily say there are no small roles, only small athletes.

    A car is made up of many parts, from the chassis to the motor to the tires to the lug nuts. Even though some may appear more important than others, each component of a car plays a vital part to its’ operation. An expensive luxury car doesn’t get very far if the $5 spark plug isn’t working properly. 

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    Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: backups, bad coaches, Coaching, Communication, connection, Denny Lehnus, good coaches, Great Teammates, Leadership, Phil Jackson, role players, Sports Parents, substitutes

    Mar 22 2024

    Getting the Most Out of Your Coaching Mentors

    The leadership expert and author John C. Maxwell says, “We all need someone to help us in our pursuit of intentional growth and the right mentor helps you take massive leaps forward.”

    Even coaches need coaches. Maxwell talks about “intentional growth”. This is when you make the conscious decision to make yourself better.

    One of the best ways to do this is with a mentor.

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    Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth, Sports · Tagged: Coachable, Coaching, development, Leadership, life coach, Mentor, Mentorship, personal development, Planning, professional development, self-aware

    Feb 21 2024

    5 Ways Coaches Sabotage Their Own Teams

    As a coach, you want to be successful and do all you can to achieve positive outcomes. However, sometimes you unknowingly block your team’s success.

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    Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: Athlete Motivation, Bad Coaching, Boring, Coaching, Coaching Tips, Culture, dead right, Maximizing Potential, Ronald Reagan, Self-Sabotage, Sports Parents, Uninspired Athletes

    Dec 21 2023

    6 Things Coaches Do On High Performance Teams

    As a coach, you’re constantly trying to lead your team as far as you can each season. This is true regardless of your resources or talent.

    However, some coaches are blessed to be a part of programs that have high-performing individuals. High-performing teams usually have individuals that are more talented than most, but as coach, your role is to get the most out of them.

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    Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: Coach 'em Up, Coaching, Culture, Elite Level, Elite Team, Excellence, Force Multiplier, High Standards, High-Performance, leading, ownership, Team Leadership

    Nov 30 2022

    Episode 185: National Fastpitch Coaches Association Executive Director

    Carol Bruggeman was a long-time Division I coach at Michigan, Purdue, and Louisville. In fact, she was tasked with starting the Purdue softball program from scratch when she was just 28 years old. She’s been the Executive Director of the National Fastpitch Coaches Association (NFCA) since February 2016 and has done great things to grow the game of softball. In addition to her role with the NFCA, Carol is also a TV analyst.

    Click here to see more about Carol

    In today’s episode, we discuss:
    • Team-building ideas
    • How to grow the game
    • Mistakes coaches make
    • Qualities of a good coach
    • Advice for younger coaches
    • NFCA Educational Initiatives
    • National Convention in San Antonio on Dec. 7-10
    • … and much more!!!

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    Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth, Podcast Episodes, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: Carol Bruggeman, Coaching, College Coaches, Joanne McCallie, NFCA, paige tonz, Positive leadership, Softball, Softball Coaching, Sue Enquist

    Nov 22 2022

    Episode 179: Former Duke Basketball Coach Talks Mental Health

    Joanne P. McCallie (“Coach P”) is one of the most highly decorated coaches from her time as a college basketball coach. In her 28 years as a head coach at Maine, Michigan State, and Duke, she won more than 70% of her games, had three National Championship game appearances, and won National Coach of the Year honors in 2005. Coach P also was the only women’s coach to lead two different programs to 30-win seasons, as well as the only women’s coach to work alongside both Coach K and Tom Izzo. She battled mental health issues while coaching, which led her to write the great book, Secret Warrior. 

    Click here to see more about Coach P.

    In today’s episode, we discuss:
    • Working with Tom Izzo and Coach K
    • Becoming a Division I head coach at age 26
    • The reality of mental health issues
    • Using phrases like “mental toughness”
    • Balancing responsibility to team but also the individual
    • … and much more!!!

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    Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth, Podcast Episodes, Sports, Teams & Organizations · Tagged: Basketball Coaches, Basketball Coaching, Brian Stanchak, Clark Kellogg, Coach K, Coach P, Coaching, Duke, Duke University, Joanne McCallie, Maine, Mental Health, Mental Issues, mental toughness, Michigan State, Tom Izzo, Women's Basketball

    Nov 16 2022

    Bechler Shares Tale of Last-Minute Delivery

    This story originally appeared on www.GoRedHawks.com on November 19, 2012

    Usually, five days is more than enough to prepare until a big game is played, a paper is due, or a special anniversary or holiday.

    But how about having only five days’ notice that you will be a first-time dad?

    That was exactly the scenario Martin Methodist women’s basketball coach Jamy Bechler encountered three years ago as he and his wife, Tabitha, received the call from Bethany Christian Services, an adoption agency based in Nashville, Tenn., that they would have the opportunity to become parents. [Read more…]

    Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: News, Sports · Tagged: Adoption, Bethany Christian Services, Bryan College, Coaching, Cori Jones, Jamy Bechler, Leadership, Martin Methodist College, Silverdale Baptist Church, Superman was Adopted, The Blind Side

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