Jamy Bechler

Providing Insights on Leadership and Success. Coach Bechler is a John Maxwell Leadership Team Member.

  • Home
  • About
  • Store
  • Blog
  • SEARCH FIRM
  • Podcast
  • Media
  • Resources
  • Speaking
  • Training

Jun 14 2025

Choose to be better

“You either get bitter or you get better. It’s that simple. You either take what has been dealt to you and allow it to make you a better person, or you allow it to tear you down. The choice does not belong to fate, it belongs to you.” (Josh Shipp)

🔊 Click here to listen to a 2-minute audio version of this story.

At 27 years of age, I was the youngest women’s basketball head coach at the NCAA level. Four years later, I was allowed to take my talents elsewhere.

I got resigned.

How kind of them to let me voluntarily resign.

No matter how you spin it, I was fired.

[Read more…]

Written by Jamy Bechler · Categorized: Leadership, Personal Growth, Sports · Tagged: basketball coach, Bitter or Better, Choices, Coaching, Ed Schilling, Fired, Growth, hired, Human Resources, i got fired club, LeTourneau University, young coach

Featured Blog Posts

  • 11 Interview Tips to Give you an Edge
  • Red Flags in Coaching Interviews: What Athletic Directors Should Not Ignore
  • 11 Off-Season Team Building Ideas
  • How to Tell if a Coach is a Real Leader or Just a Good Talker
  • 8 In-Season Team Building Ideas
  • The Case for Structured Interviews in Coach Searches
  • 8 Ways to Choose Team Captains
  • How to Evaluate Whether a Coach Will Work Well in Your Department
  • 7 Things I Changed My Mind About as a Coach
  • Four Ways to Better Prepare for Your Coaching Interviews

Blog Categories

  • Business
  • Job Search
  • Leadership
  • News
  • Personal Growth
  • Podcast Episodes
  • Sports
  • Teams & Organizations

Sign Up For Leadership Insights

Join Thousands Of Others Who Follow Jamy On These Platforms:

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Copyright © 2026 · Jamy Bechler · Providing Insights on Leadership and Success · site design: red letter design